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I STILL LOVE YOU by ๐’Ÿ๐’ถ๐“Ž๐“ˆ๐“‰๐’ถ๐“‡ ๐’ฅ๐’ž๐ป๐‘€

 I STILL LOVE YOU

WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW


โ–ช๏ธ Scriptural Foundation


Do not make decisions about love or relationships without grounding them in Godโ€™s Word.


God responds to His Word, not emotions.


Every detail about relationships can be found in how God does things through His Word.


โ–ช๏ธ Sowing and Reaping in Relationships


God determines the โ€œbodyโ€ of what is sown. What you reap may differ in form but will align with what was sown.


Continue sowing loveโ€”donโ€™t grow weary.


โ–ช๏ธ Avoiding Trends and Ignorance


Trends are temporary; donโ€™t let them guide your relationships.


Ignorance breeds darkness, but Godโ€™s Word brings light and progress.


โ–ช๏ธ Correction by the Word


If mistakes canโ€™t be corrected by the Word, youโ€™re looking in the wrong place.


Relationships flourish when based on Godโ€™s Word.


โ–ช๏ธ Communication and Truthfulness


Speak honestly and clearlyโ€”donโ€™t assume others understand unspoken thoughts.


Train yourself to be truthful, especially if not yet in a relationship.


Never compare yourself with others in relationships.


โ–ช๏ธ Godโ€™s Word and Relationship Success


Relying on Godโ€™s Word brings surprising, divine results; logic alone limits outcomes.


Handling small situations well prepares you for larger challenges.


โ–ช๏ธ Wisdom in Relationships


Wisdom brings sanctification and distinction.


A woman builds, not destroys, her home.


Seek righteousness over what is merely pleasing.


โ–ช๏ธ Vision and Pillars


Cast current situations into the future to assess the longevity of your relationship.


Walk away if foundational pillars are absent.


โ–ช๏ธ Decision-Making and Leadership


A man is called to lead by Godโ€™s Word, not by dominance.


No woman respects a man who is indecisive about Godโ€™s direction.


โ–ช๏ธ Emotional Maturity


Serve and communicate even when emotional.


Overcome negative reactions with good deeds (Romans 12:21).


Invest in reading Godโ€™s Word and other helpful materials for insight.


โ–ช๏ธ Humility and Conflict


Humility comes from remembering the good times.


Conflict should be handled with the mindset of making the relationship work.


RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS


Joint Accounts: Consider one joint account but maintain others. The Word advises diversifying resources (Ecclesiastes 11:1-2).


Giving Monthly Support: Only give if necessary. Gifts should be thoughtful and not excessive.


Motive to Marry: Marriage is for serving, mutual growth in Christ, and protecting the revelation of Christ and the church.


Key Characteristics: Look for teachability in a woman and vision in a man thatโ€™s not just financial but rooted in Godโ€™s Word.


Marriage Readiness: Always seek your pastorโ€™s counsel. They know you and can discern readiness.


Leader-Member Relationships: Consult your leader, and follow their guidance. Donโ€™t present decisions as final without their input.


DEALING WITH SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE


Accept what happened and move forward, knowing Godโ€™s love remains.


Trust may be broken, and rebuilding takes time, so avoid situations leading to sin.


COURTSHIP PERIOD


Take advantage of Godโ€™s Word during courtship.


Choose someone who listens and is teachable.


Removing Godโ€™s Word from your relationship guarantees destruction 


If faced with violence or serious issues, inform your leaders and walk away if necessary.


Regards, 

๐’Ÿ๐’ถ๐“Ž๐“ˆ๐“‰๐’ถ๐“‡ ๐’ฅ๐’ž๐ป๐‘€

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