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  FISCAL SUPERFLUITY IN MARRIAGE & HOW TO NAVIGATE YOUR WAY THROUGH THIS QUAGMIRE  LINE OF DISCOURSE :  What if the fiscal imbalance sprouting in the marriage stems from (or centres on) information assymetry and not a presumed laziness, what if ?  QUESTION.  Should a woman's financial earnings fester disrespect if the man doesn't match up to her financial standing (fiscal superfluity) at one point in the marriage ?  MY RESPONSE : Alright, if it's directed at ministry-minded Christians, I suggest that prior to marriage, choosing a woman who fits and understands “the nature of the call and the challenges that befall the called” (thus before marriage) solves a bulk of these issues, if not all, the remaining quadrant will just be notable outbursts of concern for the man to take responsibility, but never to mean any disrespect.  Also the Bible states that money doesn't answer all things, I know that might occur to you as a big hit, but don't be : rememb...

CAN I CORRECT A LEADER, PERHAPS GENTLY  Listen, humility always has a following; there is always a character congruence. Hence there's nothing gentle about correcting an experience that brought you forth into existence.    One of the ways to be successful is to know what you are not, and John the Baptist demonstrated that by admitting He wasn't the Messiah (thus the leader of the moment). Walking in the delusion that you can do and be what your leader is : I'll categorise that as the apoge of distinct folly, the finest formation of a simpleton before his organised precipitous fall. The Bible says pride (noticing issues) leads (goes before) a fall.  If you want everyone to be at your level, then you are not wise. God respects authority over anointing. Though lucifer corrupted his anointing as a cherub, still higher than the archangels, Micheal couldn't rebuke him at the contention over Moses' body, so he invoked the Lord who was higher in authority than a cherub. Bib...

  DID YOU JUST SAY GRASS BUSINESS  Concerning matters of spiritual wealth and substance, don't invest in grass, don't invest in the flesh, wise investors do not invest in grass. In fact, maintaining a grass business is anthropologically expensive because it's the hub of serpents (of dark forces) and unstable (to-and-fro) creatures like grass-hoppers : redeeming the vivid prophecy Jacob spelt to Ruben (in Genesis 49:4), “unstable... you will not excel”. Meaning you cannot excel in this business of grass. The Bible says all flesh are like grass that fades away. Now I'm not focusing on persons but the vile and insatiable nature that interlocks the complex labyrinth of human existence and pursuits. The more you invest in the flesh : thus grass, by way of fruitless conversations and limiting exposures : the poorer, duller and the more insensitive you become to matters of the Spirit.  You're not recognised nor called to fore in high and mighty corridors of power, nor seat...

  A SPEECH THROUGH A CRATER OF TEARS 2 Peter 3:11, NIV reads,  Since everything will be destroyed in this way , what kind of people ought you to be? You ought to live holy and godly lives All we've worked our lives for, can be gone in a moment. And a replay of this is coming if you're not in the ark. People are hurting, but we ain't seen nothing yet. Our world is fast approaching the climb up the aisle of time where every unsaved person will kiss such daunting horror like we never thought possible. Jesus said so, and He didn't lie!   So there's a way out, interestingly it's not a 7th NC Boulevard Street, rather, a Way called Christ Jesus, a Highway, a quick drive away from eternal damnation. Send me a text if you haven't found your way out of the coming cataclysmic devastation. Send me a text right now — but before you do, say these words to your hearing, say “Dear Lord Jesus, come into my heart, be the Lord of my life, save my soul, I've been born again...

  WHO PAYS FOR NUDES BUNDLE ? Okay, on the subject of nudes. Years ago, the man of God, Rev. Hutchison once mentioned “If God covered Adam and Eve when they went naked ...”. I thought to myself, indeed, what business do we have watching one or uncovering them from the Internet, if the Lord Himself thought it wise enough to cover it. Genesis 3:9-13,21 recounts,      “But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?” He answered, “I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.” And he said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?” The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.” Then the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.” The Lord God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and CLOTHED THEM (AND THEY WERE NO MORE NAKED, EXPOSING OR NUDE) ” .  ...

  RELATIONSHIP NUGGETS BY 𝒟𝒶𝓎𝓈𝓉𝒶𝓇 𝒥𝒞𝐻𝑀 NUGGET #1 “Why do women feel so inferior in a relationship? It's very simple, it's due to lack of understanding, foresight and value orientation. In Job.12:3, Job exclaimed “But I have understanding as well as you ; I am not inferior to you ... ”.  1Kings 3:12 recounts of Solomon “... I've given you a wise and an UNDERSTANDING HEART, so that there's NONE LIKE YOU, BEFORE YOU and AFTER YOU”. Listen, the reason why that young gentleman moved on was because there was someone else like you, before (ahead of) you in understanding and after you (as an option). An understanding heart is one key condiment that binds a relationship, it makes you distinct and almost irreplaceable. Jeremiah 3:15 then informs us of how understanding comes, and it's through the light of the teaching of God's word”.  NUGGET #2 “Now 1Kng 12:7, Rehoboam the king consulted with the old men on how to RELATE and FLOW with the people he was NOW IN R...

  I STILL LOVE YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ▪️ Scriptural Foundation Do not make decisions about love or relationships without grounding them in God’s Word. God responds to His Word, not emotions. Every detail about relationships can be found in how God does things through His Word. ▪️ Sowing and Reaping in Relationships God determines the “body” of what is sown. What you reap may differ in form but will align with what was sown. Continue sowing love—don’t grow weary. ▪️ Avoiding Trends and Ignorance Trends are temporary; don’t let them guide your relationships. Ignorance breeds darkness, but God’s Word brings light and progress. ▪️ Correction by the Word If mistakes can’t be corrected by the Word, you’re looking in the wrong place. Relationships flourish when based on God’s Word. ▪️ Communication and Truthfulness Speak honestly and clearly—don’t assume others understand unspoken thoughts. Train yourself to be truthful, especially if not yet in a relationship. Never compare yourself wi...

SIKA P3 DEDE — money enjoys noise!  Listen, let's burst some balloons and rippling bubbles of tradition. I am of the opinion that : “SIKA P3 DEDE — money enjoys noise”.  As opposed to the popular dogma in the "twi" Ghanaian dialect which states “money doesn't like noise”. Then they use the bank environment to underline their weak and fleeting entrench.  Money loves and demands sound codes to aid in their direction of transport, money is attracted to sound and that's how you call them to land safely in your life. Jesus said to “Say to that mountain”, be it a mountain of lack and poverty in your life, you don't think to that mountain, say to it, talk, and give it time, the hammer of God's word will crush that thing low like in the days of Zerubbabel!   The Bible says money is a spirit and soars towards the heavens (the realm of words), so why are you quiet? He also gave us power to get wealth, and power is distributed through words because it's the king...