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OUTWARD LOOKS IS A LADIES THING” , REALLY ?!

 “OH SIR, OUTWARD LOOKS IS A LADIES THING” , REALLY ?!  


Having attended a boy's (single-sex) college doesn't give you the right to be unkempt or dirty. First and foremost, your body is the Lord's, it's His temple and that's what the bible says, so you ought to find out how a child of God should behave, you don't have the genetic right as an offspring of God to behave like one cultured by the crudity of cosmopolitan cultures. 


     One time a young man said “we from the boy's college do not have time to iron our clothes, because ironing is a girl's thing”, I was thrilled to hear that from a Christian. Bible says in Christ there's no male nor female but the new creature, so there's nothing like “it's a ladies thing, or it's ladies that should have time for their outlook and appearance”, it's not a ladies thing, it's a new creature thing! Get this wisdom today and accept it! 


     You see, your problem is because you don't understand the scriptures, and that's what is costing you precious opportunities and access. I've had first hand reports of Christians who went for major interviews for massive infrastructural contracts and were disqualified because of their outward appearance, yes, but why were they compromised, what happened, how couldn't they fix that mess : you might ask, listen, I know such a person, though believes in God, had accepted that an excellent outlook and inviting smell, was a ladies thing and hence a man should be ashamed to look so kempt, smart and overly inviting. 


Some even profess “a man ought to look raw, rugged and smelling beastly", and that's what they term as manly or masculinity, well, you're not wise if you can't allow God's word to clear off these rubbish from your mind and personality.

 

     Listen, your ignoring (ignorance) of truth will cost you so much, believe this, in Christ it's all about the new creature, nothing with respect to gender, it will so cost you if you neglect wisdom from God's word,  you'd wonder if God was ever with you, and it'll all be because you wanted to activate His power devoid of wisdom, forgetting it doesn't work that way. 


     So the real question isn't about which educational community you grew up in, be it a single-sex or mixed college, but rather your true origin and culture (upbringing) according to the word of God. Are you from God or you're from a boy's school?, Are you in Christ, or you're in a boy's school.  Who raised you, the word of God or your school. These are the rhetorics you should be funneling down your mind unapologetically until there's a clear-cut transformation. 


Which of these are your reality, who truly raised (trained) you, the word or your school, now that should dictate how you ought to act with decorum.


DAYSTAR JCHM®

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